How do you feel when you approach a woman you’re interested in?
Many people who seem outwardly confident have struggled with shyness in the past—myself included.
Be prepared, in the first five or so minutes, to carry the conversation by providing 90, or even sometimes 100, percent of all the content until they get warmed up a little bit. By taking control of the conversation right from the beginning, you allow her time to “warm up” and shift her brain from “receive mode” rather than “give mode.” In my video I teach something I call the Triangle of Temptation which gives you a good guideline of where to steer a conversation. And this just makes it more apparent that you are a STRANGER. And this creates that uncomfortable “awkwardness” that is devastating to a conversation.
A conversation needs time to build “conversation momentum.” The problem most guys face is that don’t ever give their conversations a chance to build that “momentum.” Most guys expect to hit this “conversation flow” too quickly. and their conversations just “stall out.” Well you have to carry the conversation. talk to her in the same laid back way you would talk to an old friend. they talk to a woman in a “stiff, formal” way reserved for strangers….
Yet their overwhelming shyness still makes is impossible for them to date without great pain.
If you are one of these unfortunate people, this series of articles is going to help you overcome the problem.
I had carried “my old self” with me to the new city.
Would you believe that over half of all Americans self-identify as “shy,” especially around members of the opposite sex?
Once you moved yourself into the latter category, there was no going back.
The whole idea is to overcome that set of frustrating fears that currently have you kind of mired in an anxious, shy place.
If your shyness is currently keeping you from dating or is making dating a painful ordeal, I want you to consider getting five to ten sessions of counseling with a therapist who has a great reputation for helping people.
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